this whole thing is resumed by 3 words:
Sad but True
Now, as always, history is written by the ones who win, but what about the other side of the story?
For example, i met the band 2 years ago, and everyone seemed to be cool and kind, but Tuomas was somehow bored or mad, so he went away and gave us (my borther and me) no chance to even ask for a picture (and that's quite okay, no problem with that). But Tarja was charming and also made some jokes, the same with Empu...
Now, the second time i met them (3 weeks ago) i found the same thing going on, i won backstage passes to Nightwish, and believe me, everyone at the band behaved so nice and kind, specially Juka and Tarja (again), but it was sad for me when i saw the same "diva" attitude comming from Tuomas and not from Tarja as himself calls Tarja being a "diva", so these letter doesn't say enough for me, at least not from what i have seen.
That day was unforgetable to me.
I can't take all the things the band wrote as the whole and total truth of facts, let's be wiser than that and give Tarja the chance to explain her reasons, then we all can come up with conclussions
Dammit, this is hard, i love Nightwish.