Well, this is my article. It's not the whole article, I shorted it.
One notice: it will be the day of spring, love and women soon in Russia, and this article is devoted to this day. And my *book English* is not so good - so don't blame me, OK?
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The holyday of spring and love which will come on March, 8 is a good occasion for men to show their strength to their sweethearts and to present them a dream. And so we have a question: what woman wants? What does she dream about?
If you will ask her about it for a long time using all your persistence and waiting for definite answer on this clear question – even then you could not get any answer at all. So experienced men try to answer this question by themselves and to reason about average woman.
Of course there are some things that every woman wants. She wants to be beautiful, beloved, she wants man to care about her, she wants tenderness, love and understanding. She wants to have the psychological comfort as psychologists say. It takes not too much for this:
1. To be listened by somebody
2. To find all the things and additionally children, husband, pets, flowers and relatives on their own places, in another words – to see an order everywhere in her house.
3. To know, to see and to feel that she is beloved.
4. To lay in a bath with a foam and to relax. And not to hear thousands of question from the other side of bathroom door: “Where is my tie, darling?” “Mooooom, where is my schoolbag?” “Where is salt?” etc.
5. To find a hidden chocolate, candy or apple in a dresser.
6. To know that there will be no winter (or rain, or war, or….)
7. To have a pretty blouse or something like this…
All these little things are almost always not very expensive and sometimes are even free. But they give to woman that “psychological comfort” and the feeling of stability which is not really enough for modern woman.
On the other hand every woman wish to have new impressions and splashes of emotions. She wishes that every new day wouldn’t be similar to yesterday and bring surprises. It could be something unusual – for instance, a signature “I love you!” under her windows, made by her beloved with big red letters. Well, or even washed dishes…
Close affectionate relations and understanding with beloved people – that’s what every woman wants! Have you ever think why your girl tries to pull you into the theatre? Do you really think that she does it just not to let you watch your football? No! She just want to sit in the dark parterre and to feel her hand in yours!
And of course the main thing that woman wants is to fell that her man is a real man. Not similar to another ones. The man who knows what he needs and how to reach it.
So guys, your self-reliance, your resoluteness, your initiative and activity, your fantasy – that’s what woman wants!
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