By sexy I don't just mean what turns us on sexually--I'm talking also about personalty traits that you may find irresistable. Beauty DOES go more than skin-deep.... after all, most homely people do get married/paired off, while lots of attractive persons die utterly alone.....Ironic, ain't it?
OK, I'll start:
I find foreign accents very sexy,especially if the guy has deep voice. A sense of humor is a plus, but a guy doesn't necessarily have to be a David Letterman--just have a lighthearted attitude.
Having some obvious talent is attactive(Music and/or Art does it for me!),and so is intelligence, as long as the fellow is not arrogant about it. And self-confidence is good--who wants to be around an individual of either sex with a "poor me"attitude.
Just being kind, and sensitive wins points with me--but, I don't think ANY woman likes a grouchy asshole!
Good manners is something all us women like in a man--I mean, for pete's sake don't pick your nose or scratch your balls in public, sheeesh!
: And, elbows off the table,&napkin in lap are good for starters! 
As far as physical traits, I like 'em big and tall but its not a requirement--I have dated many shorter guys who won my attention because of their big heart!
Dark hair has always been my headturner, and so has blue eyes-- although dark eyes are nice, too.
As far as muscles go, too much of that I actually find repulsive. I'm not picky about a guy's body as long as he is healthy and relatively active.
Being well-groomed is probably what I notice most--a guy does not have to be goodlooking, but he should have clean hair, nails, clothes, and no BO. And, I love suits on any guy--that is really a turn-on, and Musk after shave!:yum2:
As for facial hair, it does not matter one way or other---some guys look great w/beards or moustaches, others don't. Tattoos are OK to me, but I don't wet my panties over them.
Passion is very attractive to me--and I don't necesarily mean sexual-I mean a zest for life, one's work,one's particular talents. A guy who has this enthusiasm will usually carry over this wonderful intensity into the bedroom which does lead to more satisying sex, and a happier relationship in general!
