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This is a serious topic, and try to keep it at least half-way decent!
By sexy I don't just mean what turns us on sexually--I'm talking also about personalty traits that you may find irresistable. Beauty DOES go more than skin-deep.... after all, most homely people do get married/paired off, while lots of attractive persons die utterly alone.....Ironic, ain't it?

OK, I'll start:
I find foreign accents very sexy,especially if the guy has deep voice. A sense of humor is a plus, but a guy doesn't necessarily have to be a David Letterman--just have a lighthearted attitude.
Having some obvious talent is attactive(Music and/or Art does it for me!),and so is intelligence, as long as the fellow is not arrogant about it. And self-confidence is good--who wants to be around an individual of either sex with a "poor me"attitude.
Just being kind, and sensitive wins points with me--but, I don't think ANY woman likes a grouchy asshole!
Good manners is something all us women like in a man--I mean, for pete's sake don't pick your nose or scratch your balls in public, sheeesh! : And, elbows off the table,&napkin in lap are good for starters!

As far as physical traits, I like 'em big and tall but its not a requirement--I have dated many shorter guys who won my attention because of their big heart!
Dark hair has always been my headturner, and so has blue eyes-- although dark eyes are nice, too.
As far as muscles go, too much of that I actually find repulsive. I'm not picky about a guy's body as long as he is healthy and relatively active.
Being well-groomed is probably what I notice most--a guy does not have to be goodlooking, but he should have clean hair, nails, clothes, and no BO. And, I love suits on any guy--that is really a turn-on, and Musk after shave!:yum2:
As for facial hair, it does not matter one way or other---some guys look great w/beards or moustaches, others don't. Tattoos are OK to me, but I don't wet my panties over them.
Passion is very attractive to me--and I don't necesarily mean sexual-I mean a zest for life, one's work,one's particular talents. A guy who has this enthusiasm will usually carry over this wonderful intensity into the bedroom which does lead to more satisying sex, and a happier relationship in general!

Good luck finding the nonexistant man

Asshaul wrote:
Good luck finding the nonexistant man

Theres millions of guys that fit my description of Mr. Wonderful--didn't you read? I never said perfection was one of my attractions. Matter of fact--guys with THAT attitude sicken me.....
Now, Asshaul--what turns you on about girls? That was the question!

First thing I look at is a face, then body in general, but looks are not the main factor - brains are also important ...

"I find foreign accents very sexy,especially if the guy has deep voice. "
Vill u go aut viz me? I hav a grreit rashn aksent:D

I like girls that take a guy for who he is, not for what she want him to be.

well
sense of humour
has to be mature
self respect

muscle are fine, but not too much
LONG HAIR!
good clothing taste
nice hands!

(i guess none of you will understand!)

I can fall in love with a girl anytime, if she has unique eyes. It's the most important. The ass and breast measurements doesn't matter (too much). For example: I fell in love with a girl recently, whose body I didn't see, as he wore long jacket. Her eyes are... OMG... I just don't know the perfect word... divine maybe.

BTW. It's very important, that there are no real "strategy" to find a girl/woman, who fits your taste. Every single person is different and unique in some ways (hopefully ), and anything may touch me. Eyes are the most important, it tells everything. The voice, how she speaks is also important. Cigarette is a big disadvantage. Sports and mostly martialarts are advantages. She must be intelligent, but not more, than I am. She mustn't be a femine, as I'm not a himsovinist. It's good, if her musical taste is similar to mine, but not so important. I could love a hardcore disco fanatic as well. (oops, don't kill me please ) So what's more? It's to late, so I must go to bad soon (must? nope, noone can tell me, but this must is from within me).

Good Night Stratofanatics!

Well, if we were talking about physical features I would fall for beautiful women with a smile and eyes that could mesmerize me... i cant really explain, you probably know what im talking about For personal feautures (which i look for nowadays, when i chat with girls on the net) I like women who understand me and take me for who I really am, my faults, my oddities etc, because im quite a weirdo hehe. Other than that its the usual smart, funny etc hehe

and well, he doesn't has to be an obsessed with alcohol... I hate guys who drink in excess

What kind of girl I want? Lessee...

Physical traits:
- Long hair (preferably red - love beautiful redheads )
- Cute face
- Not too skinny, not too fat

Personality traits:
- Smart
- Sense of humor
- Mature mind (though not too mature)
- Open-minded

Can't think of more...

Someone who is musically talented, accepts my weirdness and keeps on surprising me by telling stories, dressing up funny or sexy, playing nice songs. Anything that surprizes me in a positive way makes me feel good.

The ass and the face of course, at least that´s what i look first, then comes personality and all these intelligence qualities.
Normally, a good ass comes together with good legs.
A pretty face is the complex part of the physycal matter; eyes help a lot, but the whole face is quite important.
Then, if you met the girl, and if she´s interesting and intelligent, well, all is said and done...
I have a strong interest in red headed girls, dunno why

nicole kidman is all what i tried to say above

oh and yes, has to be open minded and doesn't has to be sexist

Painless_Cry wrote:
well
sense of humour
has to be mature
self respect

muscle are fine, but not too much
LONG HAIR!
good clothing taste
nice hands!

Yeah Nice Hands is always good
I like inteligent guys & I like when they give me attention, principally when I'm talking !
You know my perfect Man would be like "Leopold" from the movie "Kate & Leopold" !
But I know that guy only exist in Fairy Tales !!!
Anyway Hugh Jackman is a Gorgeous Man

I'm glad there are guys who do like Redheads!
Actually, lots of guys I have found know the secret about Redheads!;)
The same spirit within that gives us our fiery tempers, also gives us great sensual passion. HOT! HOT! HOT SALSA!!!! :yum2:

Every guy(and lady) has a type that catches their own eyes, but its what inside a person that holds us, and spurs us on to love the person we are attracted to.:luv3:

ladyofeternity wrote:


Yeah Nice Hands is always good
I like inteligent guys & I like when they give me attention, principally when I'm talking !
You know my perfect Man would be like "Leopold" from the movie "Kate & Leopold" !
But I know that guy only exist in Fairy Tales !!!
Anyway Hugh Jackman is a Gorgeous Man

intelligent guys! you're right, and also it's hard to find one that even if you're saying something stupid they are listening to you...

also a LOYAL one, who can just see you and think about you

A big damn pair of HUGE knockers.....nah, just kidding

-Intelligent
-Has to have really nice feelings
-If she's pretty, better
-Has to be a rebel....not that radical, like a punk or something, but not old fashioned.....i think the word is pussycat or something, anyway i meant "mojigata"

I think you're all really gay for entertaining this forum, but because i am as superficial as any, i shall leap into the fray as well.

I have often tried to pinpoint the characteristics i require in a young man. I have been unable to do so, as my tastes have wandered the scope of far beyond the rational.

I have tacked it down to this general idea: someone who is somehow distinctive. That's all.

By far the sexiest guy i have ever dated (i don't know WHY he ever liked me) was a young satanist called Invisus. Button-up shirt, slacks, fedora, trenchcoat, motorcycle, wicked laugh, drums, weapons. Cold and calculating. Perfect.

On the other hand, i am presently dating a dilapidated leftist Argentinian hippie who vaguely resembles either Che Guevara or Jesus Christ, and who listens to folk music. He is also perfect.

Thus are my tastes.

I've got what I'd always been searching for. I was only looking for the perfect girl, and I found it

NP: Children Of Bodom - Silent Night, Bodom Night

Hei, the topic says what attribute do you find SEXY... not the perfect attributes you want in a relationship.
About girls' attributes that I find sexy, here's my personal look attributes:
quite tall, about 1,65 or 1,70. Blond, blue eyes (most important!) or even green. No big breasts, the important is that they are rounded and well-done I prefer very thin body, nice ass-legs, and, very important, nice hands and arms (a little of muscles are better.. a little...). Other particular attributes that makes me feel sexed up are white fit-trousers when there's a tanga under that and you can see it from outside... Even naked back, when it's brown for the sun, it's nice to see.

About mental attributes, I find sexy when a girl is not so evident among other goose-girls (qua-qua-qua...) maybe staying in some corner, smiling instead of laughing noisily... No smoke, no alcohol, no extreme piercing or tattoes are allowed in Luca's ideal view... Then, she must be smart, have interests, have a positive and patient attitude, and not be false or stupid... And very sex-lover...

And actually... I think I have found "my" perfect girl

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Luca wrote:
Hei, the topic says what attribute do you find SEXY... not the perfect attributes you want in a relationship.

Hey, Luca's got a point there.

Asian guys are sexy. Trini guys are even sexier. Motorcycles are sexy. General superiority is sexy.

And right about now, sleep is extremely sexy. Bye everyone.

italian and argentine guys are sexy!

Painless_Cry wrote:
italian and argentine guys are sexy!

i'm italian

however I prefer brown women....the thing more important for me is the beauty of the face...then the rest...
in some girls and women attitude and behavior can be very sexy...

I'M ITALIAN TOO!!! ....uh....but i'm a chick........

Painless_Cry wrote:
italian and argentine guys are sexy!

My boyfriend's argentine. He's not SEXY, per se....he just happens to be perfect.

Actually, as it turns out, he's kind of a dork....but he's a perfect dork. i mean, the perfect modifies him, not dork. i mean, he's perfect while being dorky. i mean, uh......fuck.

If you talk with a gorgeous boy/gir, but you find out that he/she is a totally jerk without any kind of intelligent... what would you do? Remeber that the person is quite good looking...

Cant say much about that, as i dont seem to have a special taste or interest in certain aspects ...sometimes its cool, sometimes not... and its never depending on a bunch of aspects you write on a list.. so, thats it