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hm some thoughts.. well.. i feel a kind of sad. i love my girlfriend very much and i did some mistakes in this relationship, but i love her now and i will love her forever. she means all to me. i feel tired, but i have to pick up my brother later. its 2 am. i feel alone. the night is dark and everyone is sleeping. many people are not alone at the moment.. this makes me sad, because i want my girlfriend here. i miss her. i hope i will never lose her in any way. it makes me sad and it fills my mind with sorrow, that we had a little controversy yesterday. i excused me. damn.. i love her.

anything else? hm.. well, i might repeat myself, but i feel alone. You can say, i feel like alone in the dark. some more thoughts? hm.. the world is not perfect, like everything and everybody in this whole wide world. Im not perfect, and you, dear reader, too. There is and was happening so much shit in history, but history goes on and on. I makes me feel sad and it afflicts me a little bit, when i think about the world and the people. People are a self-destructing lifeform.

what can i say? im tired and sad, like i said!

I'd copy paste what you just said to your girlfriend, if I knew her.

Don't be afraid to go soft. Tell her exactly what you just told us. Just don't cry. Do it in a serious way. Show her how much she means to you.

All I can recommend at 1AM, sorry

thanks.. i told her this yesterday after this controversy.. she cried and it made me feel very sad. now its ok, but i want to see here. i have to wait 5 days, until i will see her again

Yes, you'd better give her time to think. Not too much though, or she'll think you've forgotten about her.

Best of lucks

For what its worth--Good Luck, man.
Thats all I can say.....

oh you might missunderstand this, sorry:

its ok now. we had this controversy just yesterday. we talked about it yesterday. but i feel sad, because i did it, you know? and i miss her! well, i will go to bed now! good night and thanks!

Listen to Skepticism. You'll realise that all life is for naught. And theres no point in bothering.


DAMN this stuff is having a strong effect on me!

Hi Warrior,
I'm sorry to hear about your problems with this girl and you have my entire support.
I am not sure that I understood right : are you and her a couple nowadays and you miss her because she's abroad or something, or your relationship is over and you want her back ?

cliff wrote:Hi Warrior,
I'm sorry to hear about your problems with this girl and you have my entire support.
I am not sure that I understood right : are you and her a couple nowadays and you miss her because she's abroad or something, or your relationship is over and you want her back ?

thanks cliff!

we are still a couple.. she is visiting her grandmother at the moment. i will see her in 5 days agian, i think. but thank you! i miss her. i called her on her mobile phone and we talked about for 5 minutes 2 hours ago

Warrior of Hell wrote: we are still a couple.. she is visiting her grandmother at the moment. i will see her in 5 days agian, i think. but thank you! i miss her. i called her on her mobile phone and we talked about for 5 minutes 2 hours ago

Oh, nice to hear you're still together!
But hei, your problem isn't too bad! I know one couple who can meet only once every 6 months. The rest of time, they just spend LOT of time, chating, writing emails or talking on the phone. Of course it's really difficult when you can't meet your dear every day and when you want to feel her in your arms, but on the other hand, the "meeting" is really great after missing each other for such a long time !

cliff wrote:

Warrior of Hell wrote: we are still a couple.. she is visiting her grandmother at the moment. i will see her in 5 days agian, i think. but thank you! i miss her. i called her on her mobile phone and we talked about for 5 minutes 2 hours ago

Oh, nice to hear you're still together!
But hei, your problem isn't too bad! I know one couple who can meet only once every 6 months. The rest of time, they just spend LOT of time, chating, writing emails or talking on the phone. Of course it's really difficult when you can't meet your dear every day and when you want to feel her in your arms, but on the other hand, the "meeting" is really great after missing each other for such a long time !

youre right she lives about 80 km from here, because she goes to university there. We can often only be together on the weekends but i have to accept it..

well that isn't too bad... i've heard of much worse circumstances...

Warrior of Hell wrote:
youre right she lives about 80 km from here, because she goes to university there. We can often only be together on the weekends but i have to accept it..

Yeah...thats life man...(234246 person that wrote it now)...Cliff is right, is so much sad when you cant see who you love near. I've felt it for 1 year and wasnt a good experience, when i comeback...she already had a new boyfriend(and didnt had courage to say it to me...i had to see the whole scene) and in 2 in 2 months i always came to my city visit her, friends and family and everything seems so much pretty fine , there are worse things, brother...anyway, we're here for talk.

I know how you feel, man. I traveled back to Omaha to spend some time with my ex-girlfriend. After a while, she just built up a bad attitude that she got from her friends, and we "unofficially" broke up. By that, I mean that she never really gave me an answer whether she wanted to break up or not.

I just hope I can find someone here in Cornland...

Warrior of Hell wrote:Hello there

hm some thoughts.. well.. i feel a kind of sad. i love my girlfriend very much and i did some mistakes in this relationship, but i love her now and i will love her forever. she means all to me. i feel tired, but i have to pick up my brother later. its 2 am. i feel alone. the night is dark and everyone is sleeping. many people are not alone at the moment.. this makes me sad, because i want my girlfriend here. i miss her. i hope i will never lose her in any way. it makes me sad and it fills my mind with sorrow, that we had a little controversy yesterday. i excused me. damn.. i love her.

well, i might repeat myself, but i feel alone. You can say, i feel like alone in the dark. some more thoughts?

I don't want to sound rude at all, but I cannot feel sorry for you. The reason is simple: You feel lonely and sad over a little conroversy you had with your girlfriend... Well, you do have a girlfriend, so I don't see why I should feel bad for you; on the contrary, I feel happy for you. You are 80 kms. apart, but that's not real loneliness. So, cheer up! Enjoy the good times with your girlfriend! Trust me, I know loneliness; I have one very good friend who lives in another city 600 km. away and that's all. I have no girlfriend and no "local" friends, which means I can't really go out since I don't really enjoy going to restaurants alone I have no one to listen to Strato with!!! I have to go to the movies and to concerts alone, and all of this has been going on for more than seven years... As Tony Kakko would say, "how much suffocated anxiety can be held within?". I'm not saying this to sound like a victim or to generate feelings of compassion; I'm just saying I know what loneliness feels like and I try to deal with it as best I can (although I'm not very successful ). So, Warrior, from my perspective, your situation is NOTHING to be worried about . I repeat, enjoy your relationship and be happy knowing that you have a nice girlfriend and that you both enjoy the times you have together

hi there

i have to say, that here are so many nice people writing in this forum. thank you all! i wished every person would be so open, helpful and nice! Thank you all for perking me up :leapfrog: :banana1: