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sorry to hear that stratohawk, be friends and who knows what the future will hold

Oh I know that feeling when you see somebody who seems to be your dream forever, and you already begin to fantasizing as you will come close to him and say something ... and then see him with another girl who has dark teeth and empty head... And you think - fuck, damn life, it's unfair!..

Cheer up, Timon, she isn't the last girl on this Earth!

yah, thanks. it's not that tragic; you know, it was just this weekend. Personally I never experienced love at first sight, it always takes me longer than a quick glance or a short encounter. This kind of earthshaking first meeting I've never really experienced, also not in this case. For me it's more to see someone for the first time, the outer appearance awakens some interest, then, after the first talk, I realize wether she is friendly and likable, and so on. It always takes me some days. I don't fall for someone too easy.
But well, maybe I was on the way to fall in love this time... It really frustrated me today to see her with that other guy. But well, we never know. Maybe it was better this way!?

it's a very small line between love and pain....

stratohawk wrote:But well, maybe I was on the way to fall in love this time... It really frustrated me today to see her with that other guy. But well, we never know. Maybe it was better this way!?

Perhaps it's not yet the right time. Timing is everything.

nepi wrote:it's a very small line between love and pain....

Yes it is.

HvyMtlClickWitch wrote: Timing is everything.

So very true that!

Stealth wrote:

nepi wrote:it's a very small line between love and pain....

Yes it is.

Quite true, but there are many fish in the sea.

Morgana wrote:Excuse me if it was to cruel or coarsely but I just wanted to say that I AM too old.. I'm 22 already and it seems that most part of my life passed. Years go by... (c)

Sorry, but 22 is not exactly, "over the hill".

miditek wrote:

Morgana wrote:Excuse me if it was to cruel or coarsely but I just wanted to say that I AM too old.. I'm 22 already and it seems that most part of my life passed. Years go by... (c)

Sorry, but 22 is not exactly, "over the hill".

oh well, not much hope for me then, i'm 27.

something new rissing.. and i'm scarred of it

Painless_Cry wrote:something new rissing.. and i'm scarred of it

what do you mean with that?

dirge wrote:

HvyMtlClickWitch wrote: Timing is everything.

So very true that!

Time heals every wounds but that can't be a solution for eternity! Some wounds won't be totally closed...

miditek wrote:Quite true, but there are many fish in the sea.

same here. It is maybe true but won't heal my pain....

nepi wrote:

dirge wrote:

HvyMtlClickWitch wrote: Timing is everything.

So very true that!

Time heals every wounds but that can't be a solution for eternity! Some wounds won't be totally closed...

miditek wrote:Quite true, but there are many fish in the sea.

same here. It is maybe true but won't heal my pain....

Time won't heal totally the wounds, but Love can do it sometimes. And in my case, I hurt so much my gf that I feel bad and that I begin to think that I'm a monster. I would like to hide in a mouse hole. I would like to tell to the One I love that I'm so sorry and that I never wanted to hurt her. I don't know what to do to get the pardon and to do to make my gf to feel better. I'm nothing but a monster... I love her so much!!!

now we are Mr. Hyde, soon we change to Dr. Jekyll

nepi wrote:now we are Mr. Hyde, soon we change to Dr. Jekyll

I don't know, but I really hope it.

dirge wrote:

miditek wrote:

Morgana wrote:Excuse me if it was to cruel or coarsely but I just wanted to say that I AM too old.. I'm 22 already and it seems that most part of my life passed. Years go by... (c)

Sorry, but 22 is not exactly, "over the hill".

oh well, not much hope for me then, i'm 27.

I'm 27 too, so I must think there's nothing more for me?
We all are so young! It's true that sometimes you feel so old because all of the bad moments and hurting, but "there's so much to give", we have a lot of years to live yet...

Stratolily wrote:

dirge wrote:

miditek wrote: Sorry, but 22 is not exactly, "over the hill".

oh well, not much hope for me then, i'm 27.

I'm 27 too, so I must think there's nothing more for me?
We all are so young! It's true that sometimes you feel so old because all of the bad moments and hurting, but "there's so much to give", we have a lot of years to live yet...

So true! Some of my friends who are younger keep reminding me that in a little over two years i'll be thirty, yet everyone says I look about their age(20 -23) So I have the last laught there!

I know I have been through a lot so far(especially last year, with being in hospital and other stuff) but there is so much more to come in life, I have learnt from the past and have so much love to give! There is one lucky lady out there somewhere, now all I need to do is find her!

fuck this topic! my girlfriend left me 2 days ago

What the hell is going on??? During last week 5 my friends were left by their GFs!!!

Guys, I share with you...

Morgana wrote:What the hell is going on??? During last week 5 my friends were left by their GFs!!!

Must be something to do with the heat maybe?
lol!
It is a wierd thing though, as it's happened to me once or twice and I seem to remember now, that it was summer time for them too.

i have been exacttly alone for about 5 months... (it was the last time i saw my "love")

yesterday i started a new thing... and well, now i have an official boyfriend... feels strange lol.

the funny thing is that... my first BF was paraguayan, than half brazilian, pakistani and now an argie

dirge wrote: I have learnt from the past and have so much love to give! There is one lucky lady out there somewhere, now all I need to do is find her!

Totally agree. There's one lucky guy out there for me too, we just need to wait paciently for the right moment when we are ready to love again.

I'm so sorry about your break up, Warrior of Hell. It's something that has happend to all here at least once. We understand what you are feeling.

Guys above, there's only one problem: Everytime you are in love, you think it's the lady/boy for your life and the right moment has come....

I think this way too, but sometimes you have to be strong!

nepi wrote:Guys above, there's only one problem: Everytime you are in love, you think it's the lady/boy for your life and the right moment has come....

Well, speaking for myself, I'm not sure about that anymore. I had a relationship that lasted for almost 4 years. But I had to finish it, because I realized that we have changed and I didn't love her enough anymore. It sounds simple but was so fucking confusing for my mind, till today I don't understand why and how those things went that way. I was ashamed, but leaving her was the only honest thing to do.
This was more than one year ago. Since then I had no relationship, and I'm afraid I'm still so confused that I cannot start a new relationship - not at the moment, not for the next time (besides having little time due to my job training). When do you now you found the right person? How can you judge the person you meet? Many habbits and attributes can change over a long time (I experienced that in my last relationship)?

Fact is, one must listen to his/her heart. If that was just so easy... Yes, I thought that my last girlfriend was the love of my life. Now I'm much more careful...

stratohawk wrote:

Painless_Cry wrote:something new rissing.. and i'm scarred of it

what do you mean with that?

well, i have now a new BF... and i was kinda scared, cuz the last thing i had went really bad... now i'm trying

oh dear! I am so drunk at mo, and I tried it on with a friend of mine. Somehow it didn't go as planned and now I feel like a plonka!

i had a wonderful date yesterday... but i got robbed

two guys with knives... i have a little scar on my neck now

Stratolily wrote:

dirge wrote: I have learnt from the past and have so much love to give! There is one lucky lady out there somewhere, now all I need to do is find her!

Totally agree. There's one lucky guy out there for me too, we just need to wait paciently for the right moment when we are ready to love again.

Well, i've met someone rather lovely, lets hope she is the one! She is a bit older but she seems more than twice as much as lovely then anyone ever!
Lets hope it all goes well.