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Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 4:07 am
by Stratolily
HvyMtlClickWitch wrote:Hvyblah? :lol:

I don't think that Lily necessarily meant that I was personally trying to offend people. But, it could be quite possible that I did. So, if I did offend anyone, I apologize. Swear I didn't mean it.

As for love, IMO it can be a good arrangement from time to time, but for the most part I simply don't see the purpose of it.
Hey! It's ok, no problem. :wink:
It's just that I'm not ok and I know that sometimes I can be a little unkind sometimes. I'm just trying to feel better, but this f**king bitterness is killing me...

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 12:56 pm
by Beast_Pete
Miguel_Ricardo wrote:Hmmm I totally disagree with you.... you're mixing love with sex, and I can asure you that they're completely different things...
Not completely different things. I think, that sex is the best when you do it with somebody you love. But it's true, that there's sex without love as well.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 1:04 pm
by Heiserich
Hmmm... Might be I fell in love a week ago. Don't know if that's a good thing, though :roll:

Could be much trouble. But I show the typical symptoms... guess I should give it a try...

I got to know her at the baptism of my godchild (yes, I got a godchild :lol: English is a cool language, hehe), she's really... well, I won't even start spamming about her. Yes, I'm quite confused. As I already said, the typical symptoms... :cyclop:

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 1:19 pm
by StragOvariuS
Beast_Pete wrote:
Miguel_Ricardo wrote:Hmmm I totally disagree with you.... you're mixing love with sex, and I can asure you that they're completely different things...
Not completely different things. I think, that sex is the best when you do it with somebody you love. But it's true, that there's sex without love as well.
That is good for 1 hour, after sucks.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 4:20 pm
by NeonVomit
Yeah, it sucks afterwards. No emotional attatchment.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 5:43 pm
by HvyMtlClickWitch
Stratolily wrote:Hey! It's ok, no problem. :wink:
It's just that I'm not ok and I know that sometimes I can be a little unkind sometimes. I'm just trying to feel better, but this f**king bitterness is killing me...
With all due respect...

....you WILL get over it.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 7:46 pm
by neonlightchild
love is in the air, everywhere you look around...

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 8:24 pm
by Pikkusielu
Do you have a partner?
No.
Are you in love?


Well... yes! Or then it's just a childish crush. :err:
Are you frustrated with love or the opposite sex?
No. Well... I'm a little bit shy. :oops:
Do you believe in love at first sight?
I think it's just a myth, but there must also be some thruth in it. :jump:

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2005 10:03 pm
by Beast_Pete
StragOvariuS wrote:That is good for 1 hour, after sucks.
Rather 2-3 hours. But imho it's good afterwards too.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 3:02 am
by StragOvariuS
Beast_Pete wrote:
StragOvariuS wrote:That is good for 1 hour, after sucks.
Rather 2-3 hours. But imho it's good afterwards too.
hehe you have patience. :P

Im in the middle of the act and already started to sucks man...only if is a cool person, then its fine...yeah. But just for "sex" often, oh man...cant stand it. Better control the flesh. :lol:

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 1:44 pm
by Beast_Pete
LOL, ok. :lol:

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 8:05 pm
by Electric Eye
Miguel_Ricardo wrote:Hmmm I totally disagree with you.... you're mixing love with sex, and I can asure you that they're completely different things...
No, both things lead to the same, and wether you like it or not, they have the same aim in basis.
Miguel_Ricardo wrote: the only time I felt in love I swear to god I didn't expect to have sex with that person, and I mean I REALLY loved that person, I enjoyed the company , chats, studying everything, and "nature" things never happened and I didn't care.... I'm still in love with that person...
right, because it didn't happen at once. But it all leads to the aim that is obvious. People who involve themselves in a relationship has their expects, which won't tell at the beginning... the problem is when they reveal it later to the partner, and one side doesn't accept it. The other one may feel this period of time as a wasted one... and has right.
I don't have reasons to not believe you, but still the question 'what is love?' is open...
Miguel_Ricardo wrote:Imagine an old couple who's not capable of doing nature things, they still love each other!
but they probably did it earlier, so they are fulfil, their mission on earth is done. They still live together, because they get used to it, and don't want to be lonley in time when people may need help. They use key-word 'love' to justify their state and mutual living.
Beast_Pete wrote:Not completely different things. I think, that sex is the best when you do it with somebody you love. But it's true, that there's sex without love as well.
yep. Whether you know what you want and treat partner with respect and have the same expectations, or treat him/her as an object to satisfy your needs, which is harmful and immoral.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 1:42 am
by Painless_Cry
involved in something like a relationship for about 5 months (25th of nov 5 months "togheter")

actually he has to many issues in his live so he asked time long time ago... but I was so addicted to him back then and we ended up like this.

so, we do everything that a couple do but he don't have that label... I guess a relation like that doesn't has a name.

and for making things worst I don't even know how much I love him or it's really love or just this fatal attraction... anyway...


live goes on I guess..

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Tue Nov 29, 2005 5:00 pm
by MetalAngel
stratohawk wrote: Do you have a partner?
Yes, I have. But she doesn't want me to tell to everybody that I love her...:oops:
stratohawk wrote:Are you in love? Are you frustrated with love or the opposite sex?
Of course we are in love! Otherwise, I wouldn't have posted in this topic! :lol: And no, I'm not frustrated as I receive a lot of love from her.
stratohawk wrote:Do you believe in love at first sight?
Once again, yes, I do. That was the great "boum" with her. :)

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 8:11 am
by cliff
MetalAngel wrote: Yes, I have. But she doesn't want me to tell to everybody that I love her...:oops:
I know who she is! I know who she is! ;-)

Nice to know that things are doing pretty well between the two of you btw!
Me wants to be invited to the wedding!

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:26 am
by neonlightchild
love is not a word, and that i learned from the greatest being on earth, my precious Tissha, who passed away months ago, she made me see that many people says "i love you" and don't really know what they are saying.
Tissha made me see that love is "showing" not "saying", Tissha gave me LOVE beyond words. Tissha was my dog, and i miss her so much, maybe you don't understand it, maybe you think i'm crazy for loving a dog more than i love many humans around me, but that's it.
I'm gonna miss her so much this holidays...

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 3:25 pm
by MetalAngel
cliff wrote:
MetalAngel wrote: Yes, I have. But she doesn't want me to tell to everybody that I love her...:oops:
I know who she is! I know who she is! ;-)

Nice to know that things are doing pretty well between the two of you btw!
Me wants to be invited to the wedding!
:D She will be angry when she'll read your post, man... :oops:

And thank you, my friend!!! :) :beer:

I'll tell you when our wedding will be and I'll send you an invitation! :viking:

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:26 pm
by stratohawk
I have a problem that I cannot explain
I have no reasons why it should have been so plain,
Have no questions but I sure have excuse
I lack the reason why I should be so confused, I know, how I feel when
I'm around you,
I don't know, how I feel when I'm around you

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:30 pm
by stratoplayer
stratohawk wrote:I have a problem that I cannot explain
I have no reasons why it should have been so plain,
Have no questions but I sure have excuse
I lack the reason why I should be so confused, I know, how I feel when
I'm around you,
I don't know, how I feel when I'm around you
nice poem or song

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Wed Nov 30, 2005 9:31 pm
by stratohawk
it's "Roulette" from System Of A Down. Great ballad!

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 1:07 am
by Painless_Cry
I love you or I want you?
you love me or you want me?

questions like that are around my head... I guess i'll ask him to have something serious, a "name" for this... strangely I don't want to leave him

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Fri Dec 02, 2005 6:19 pm
by stratoplayer
asking for seriousness doesn't have to involve a brakeup...

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 1:43 am
by Painless_Cry
but being with somebody without a name it's kinda strange...

you know tomorrow he can be with somebody else, he's free to do whatever he wants

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Sat Dec 03, 2005 4:29 am
by stratohawk
Painless_Cry wrote:but being with somebody without a name it's kinda strange...

you know tomorrow he can be with somebody else, he's free to do whatever he wants
mmm, did I miss something? what exactly are you talking about?

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Sun Dec 04, 2005 3:14 pm
by MetalAngel
I really love my star!!! :)


Sorry, but I had to tell that!!! :oops:

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 1:49 am
by Painless_Cry
stratohawk wrote:
Painless_Cry wrote:but being with somebody without a name it's kinda strange...

you know tomorrow he can be with somebody else, he's free to do whatever he wants
mmm, did I miss something? what exactly are you talking about?
well... I didn't wrote the whole thing.

for about 5 months i'm involved with this guy, who says he loves me but has soo much trouble in his life that he can't date me right now.

we spent almost 3 months like this... by the 4th month finally we started hagging together and I said "ok, let just care about the present, forget the past and the future"

now here we are... almost like a relationship, but we don't have a name...

and now even I don't know if I want a name for this... :(

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 1:58 am
by stratohawk
Thanks for explaining. I think I can understand a little bit... Strange thing. But well: Love is a strange thing, too.

I now a girl, she's kind of a friend of mine, but lives very far away. We only meet about one time a year, but stay in contact by writing letters. I know her for about five years, and though I was 17 when we met first, my feelings haven't really changed. I know that we are very different and probably wouldn't match together, but deep inside I feel so much for her, I would wait for her together, I think...

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 2:30 am
by Painless_Cry
5 years, that's a lot of time...

your store and the fact that you still feel the same is kinda sweet and lovely... I hope that it works one day.

Indeed, love is a strange thing.. in matters of love it seems that everybody it's a little masochist.

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 12:52 pm
by Beast_Pete
There's a mexician girl from another forum. I have a promise to her, that when she comes to Europe, I try not to have a girlfriend. Till then I can have. But if I don't have one about a month before her arrival, then I won't try at anybody. She is going to study in Finnland, but she wants to see many places all around Europe. And her most important visit is going to be in Hungary. :)

I'm not in love with her yet. I'd like to keep that feeling away for a while, because someone other can come in sight till her visit. But when she gets here, I bet I won't keep back myself... :)

Re: The LOVE topic!! :-)

Posted: Mon Dec 05, 2005 9:12 pm
by stratohawk
Hey Pete, that's a nice story! 8) Dear, what love can do to a man... *g*