Miguel_Ricardo wrote:Hmmm I totally disagree with you.... you're mixing love with sex, and I can asure you that they're completely different things...
No, both things lead to the same, and wether you like it or not, they have the same aim in basis.
Miguel_Ricardo wrote: the only time I felt in love I swear to god I didn't expect to have sex with that person, and I mean I REALLY loved that person, I enjoyed the company , chats, studying everything, and "nature" things never happened and I didn't care.... I'm still in love with that person...
right, because it didn't happen at once. But it all leads to the aim that is obvious. People who involve themselves in a relationship has their expects, which won't tell at the beginning... the problem is when they reveal it later to the partner, and one side doesn't accept it. The other one may feel this period of time as a wasted one... and has right.
I don't have reasons to not believe you, but still the question 'what is love?' is open...
Miguel_Ricardo wrote:Imagine an old couple who's not capable of doing nature things, they still love each other!
but they probably did it earlier, so they are fulfil, their mission on earth is done. They still live together, because they get used to it, and don't want to be lonley in time when people may need help. They use key-word 'love' to justify their state and mutual living.
Beast_Pete wrote:Not completely different things. I think, that sex is the best when you do it with somebody you love. But it's true, that there's sex without love as well.
yep. Whether you know what you want and treat partner with respect and have the same expectations, or treat him/her as an object to satisfy your needs, which is harmful and immoral.